Mistakes you should not make at the beginning of a relationship.

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If you are recently in love and you want to make sure your relationship stands the test of time, all you have to do is avoid these mistakes you shouldn’t make at the beginning of your relationship. I will make it brief.

1. Being a control freak


sometimes, it can be cute to be bossy but when you are a control freak ,it can wear anybody out. If you didn’t like what you saw than you shouldn’t have proceeded to a relationship. But since you are in the relationship it is expected that you do like the person and who the person is, so if you are trying to change your partner and making them into another you and it will not be petty.

2. Pointing out every flaw

one of the greatest mistakes most people make in a relationship is expect perfection from their partner. Your partner have flaws that is what the dating period is for to know if you can handle the flaws your partner is coming up with.

3. Not being yourself

Sometimes, we are likely to want to impress the other person that we become someone else. Don’t lie about hobbies, change your dressing and friends just to satisfy the person. You are only good for any relationship when you are being yourself.

4. lack of communication

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communication is one of the main ingredients of a good relationship. Once you lose communication you might as well not be to be in relationship. Read This If he doesn’t let you grow, you have to let him go

5. Dishonesty and keeping secrets

if you want your relationship than you cannot afford to keep secret or be dishonest .a relationship built on lies cannot stand.it is as sample as that. You have to be truthful to your partner and let them know every important details that they need to know or it is just a matter of time before the relationship hit the rocks.

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6. Being too clingy and needy

we know you love your partner and that is enviable but you need to give them room to breathe. Clinginess and neediness are never advisable in a relationship. People need room and space to sometimes be on their own or invest In other relationship in their life.

7. Badmouthing your ex(es)

you might think your partner want to hear it but constantly badmouthing your ex don’t give you a good look. Your present partner doesn’t want to make the relationship about your ex(es) and all they did wrong every single time they want to spend time with you.

8. Being pessimistic

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some people enter relationship expecting it to fail. The mind is very powerful that is why psychologist say you are what you think. You cannot start a relationship with a strategy in place, commit to your relationship and stay positive and it most likely to being back what you expect.

9. Ignoring red flags

a successful relationship Is not always one that last forever, sometimes, it is equally successful when it make it clear to you that you don’t want to be in a relationship with that person. Don’t ignore red flags because you want a relationship to last. Pay attention to them for your own sake.

10. Losing romance

After a while, it is easy to lost the romance and stop putting effort to date your partner. Don’t begin to take them for granted because you have gotten them now and you don’t think they are going anywhere.

Do you see/find yourself making these mistakes? Hey don’t feel bad, you can always talk to a counselor about it

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