Sometimes you start thinking if you are the only woman in his life, despite all your efforts in showing him how much you love him you still have this feelings but there are certain things that if you do your man will always choose you over other women and you will have more confident. The most important thing you can do to make a man happy is about creating a friendly environment for him in terms of peace of mind. Here is how to give a man peace of mind and he will choose you over other girls.
Do you still believe in love? Are you in love and wondering if your partner loves you or not? When someone truly loves you, caring for you will be their top priority, respecting you will be there, appreciation and gratitude will be there, there will be no cheating and lying in the relationship nor pretense.
Before we highlight what to do in order for him to choose you over other women let’s take time to understand what it means to love someone and how to know if he loves you or not so that you will not end up wasting time with this wrong person
THEY MAKE YOU THEIR PRIORITY
When someone loves you their top priority will be you, they’ll do anything for your happiness and safety. Love come with surprises but when someone truly love you they will stay with you and prove their love in good moments and bad times.
A man truly in love with a lady will make her a priority. When you two are together, he will focus on you and give you all of his attention instead of pressing his phone and chatting. His focus will be on you.
THEY TREAT YOU DIFFERENTLY
When someone truly love you, they’ll treat you differently in a good ways, they have seen something special about you which others can’t see, they won’t like to mess it up, do you know that until someone start seeing how special you are they will never value you? but when they do, that’s when they’ll start valuing you and treating you well. Nobody treats what they don’t value well. If your partner is not treating you specially, there’s big chance they don’t value you that much and you need to do something about it immediately. Read this 6 ways to Let Go of Someone Who Treats You Badly
THEY RESPECT YOU
I told one of my clients that came for counseling that the major factor in a relationship is respect, if they don’t respect you, you need to let them go. When someone is deeply in love with you respecting you will come naturally, they’ll never disrespect you, abuse you or raise their hands on you. They’ll place you high with strong respect you deserve. Respect is important in a relationship, who doesn’t respect you may not have deep feelings for you. Read this How To End A Relationship In 8 Respectful Steps
THEY SUPPORT YOU
We only support those we love so if doesn’t support you it means they don’t love you. Love is giving and there is no other explanation better than this. He or she will support you in good or bad times, base on experience when someone truly loves you, they’ll never run away when things getting unbearable in the relationship, your problems will become their problems, your goals will become their goals, your happiness will become their top priority in life, when someone loves you they’ll do anything possible to support you in everything, when someone supporting you in bad situations and circumstances, they can do anything for you, sometimes they truly care and love the person, in bad moments a fake lover will surely abandon you.
THEY GIVE YOU PEACE
They’ll give you peace rather than frustration, peace of mind matters a lot in a relationship, some people are bad of problems that yield frustration in their partner life, yes challenges must occurred in a relationship but some people keep creating the problems, someone who truly loves you will care about your happiness, peace and quiet time. When someone avoid to cause problems for you, when can die for you.
THEY CHANGE THEIR BAD HABIT
They will change their bad habits for you, nobody will change for good unless they decided to change their ways, non matter how you love someone your love cannot make them change unless they decided to change, people only change because they want to change.
ACTION VS WORDS
Their actions will match with their words and their words will match with their actions, remember actions speak louder than words. Easiest way to know who truly loves you, watch their actions / attitudes towards you if match what they’re telling you.
Now that we know what it takes to love someone and how to know if your man/woman loves you deeply, do you still want to know how to make him choose you over other women? Is He worth it? Does He deserve it? If He does then here is what to do to make him choose you over other women.
GIVE HIM PEACE OF MIND
Give your Man peace of mind and he’ll love you more. One thing men want in a relationship especially marriage is peace of mind, many girls are full of troubles and frustrations, nagging and accusations.
A man want peace, and he can do anything to have it. Men don’t joke with peace. It’s the reason so many men keep late at nights or running away from their marriages.
Some close early at work but would spend extra hours at bar, club, hotel wherever than go home. Why? She is choking and nagging him! She make marriage unbearable for him. She overloads his mind and he needs some space! He wants to exhale! Take a break! Anywhere, wherever, just breathe.
If you don’t know how to give a man peace, you will choke him without knowing and send him out of your life.
Stop overreacting to everything in life, sometimes close your mouth and control yourself. Nobody is perfect, stop messing things up and expecting peace in the family. Stop being annoying and control yourself no matter the situation, that moment you use arguing and fighting use it to create beautiful memories between you and your lover.
No Man want a nagging woman who can’t controls their month and emotion: you can read my book titled “Enslaved to my emotions” this book will expose you to a lot of ways on how to control your emotions , learn to overlook some things that may lead to bigger problems in your relationship
Start doing the right things at the right moments, don’t hold back in doing the right things at the right moments, true love comes with surprises, you have to be understanding and learn to appreciate whatever your partner offers you whether big or small.
Sacrifice anything necessary that will make your relationship to work out. If you truly love your man, smile more, forgive your partner, remember nobody is perfect, we all makes mistakes in life, in a relationship if apologizing will get your relationship working again, cut your pride and apologize.
Try and contribute in making your relationship work and last forever, giving your partner peace of mind and loving your partner will create room for true friendship and love. Remember Relationship is 50/50.
You can always drop a comment or tell us if you are experiencing this in your relationship and how you were able to make him choose you over other women.