Are You In A Love-Hate Relationship?

Is better to know if you’re in a love-hate relationship. Being in love is such a wonderful feeling, sometimes even indescribable as to how much you adore a person when you’re with them you’d feel you’re complete and you can take anything as long as you have them but sometimes you feel as though you want to put an end to the relationship and move on with your life.

No, it’s not like your typical lover’s quarrel, sometimes there’s this mixed feelings of LOVE AND HATE towards your partner and that is Called a LOVE AND HATE RELATIONSHIP.

WHAT IS LOVE?

Love is a feeling of strong or constant affection towards a person that includes sexual desire.

WHAT IS HATE?

Hate is a feeling of intense dislike towards a person or a particular thing.

WHAT IS LOVE HATE RELATIONSHIP?

Is there such thing as loving and hating someone at the same time and maintaining relationship with them in the process? A love hate relationship can occur not just with lovers but also with friends, siblings etc.

A LOVE – HATE RELATIONSHIP is one where both the partners have strong feelings for each other but are not consistent in expressing them so they behave lovingly on some occasion and act like enemies on other days.

People having a LOVE – HATE relationship tend to speak harsh words that they do not mean on some occasions, they cannot bear to stand each other and might want to end the relationship right away but do not end it. It is normal to have feelings of anger, resentment and a bit of hate when you and your partner argue but when it happens more often than it ought to be instead of breaking up for good, you feel that you’re getting stronger. A LOVE AND HATE relationship can be an emotional roller coaster with the intense emotion beingfelt. It’s both LIBERATING yet DRAINING, it’s EXCITING yet TIRING, PASSIONATE yet AGGRESSIVE and at some point you ‘ll have to ask yourself; IS THERE REALLY A FUTURE IN THIS TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP

SIGNS OF A LOVE-HATE RELATIONSHIPS

Here are three (3) basic signs of a love and hate relationships

BREAKING UP AND MAKING UP CYCLE

If you are breaking up and making up with your partner over and over again, it’s a classic sign of a LOVE-HATE RELATIONSHIP. Some days you have this conviction that you two are better off without each other and other days you hope that things will be different somehow.

LACK OF MEANINGFUL CONNECTION

If you find your partner attractive for only superficial aspects like your economic status and good looks, something is definitely not right. A LOVE-HATE RELATIONSHIP is devoid of passion, romance, and emotional intensity, it makes you focus on things like wondering how good you two look with each other rather than paying attention to finding a meaningful connection.  

PRETENDING THINGS FOR THE OUTSIDE WORLD

When you are in a LOVE-HATE RELATIONSHIP your major concerned is about what the world thinks about you and your partner. You act differently in front of the outside world and try to appear much in love with each other, you also resort to displaying your affection on social media hoping to set relationship goals for couples you hang out with.

Thank you once again for reading through, I hope you find this article useful.