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23 Signs To Know If Someone Desires You And Think Sexually About You

Edet Esah by Edet Esah
May 30, 2022
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Do you ever feel like someone you like, likes you too? You feel insanely attracted to them. You feel hot around the collar when they step into the room. But are they attracted to you too? If you’re wondering how to know if someone is thinking about you sexually, and if there’s any mutual attraction, you’ll know it all in a few minutes.

You might be confused about someone’s attraction towards you, so figuring out how to know if someone is thinking about you sexually will help you plan your next steps.

If you don’t know how to do this right, it can be a little bit of a problem, especially if you want to take the next step forward.

You’re sitting here with all these feelings and emotions coursing through you. You have butterflies when you see them, and your mind goes blank when they talk to you. We all experience these nerves around someone we really like.

The question is, are these feelings reciprocated? Or are you the only one who’s feeling this? It’s a good question to ask, and something to figure out for your own peace of mind.

How to know if someone is thinking about you sexually

So, how do you know if someone is thinking about you sexually? Not all of us want to wait around to see. Many of us are impatient and need some hint that our feelings aren’t one-sided. So, it’s time we figured this out. Because the waiting and anticipation are killing you!

You can fake being nice to someone. You can fake talking sweetly to someone. BUT the good thing is real sexual attraction can’t be faked. If the signs match up, then it’s probably true that they think about you sexually and can’t wait to get in bed with you.

This is good news, right? Right! So, let’s get started. Seriously, it’s time to know!

1. You feel it
What you’re feeling is chemistry. When you’re around them, there’s this feeling that you are more than just friends.

If you have a feeling that they’re looking at you in a lustful way or they’re thinking of you sexually, well, don’t doubt yourself so quickly. Your intuition is probably right. 

2. They hang around you
When people are sexually attracted to someone, they stay close to their crush. But by close, we mean really close. They want to be in your personal space.

This is normal when it comes to sexual attraction. If they’re not into you, they’ll keep a distance from you because they’re not interested.

3. They’re touchy
We’re not talking in a harassing manner. Whether it’s a woman or man, they love to touch the person they’re into… subtly. Maybe you made a joke, and while laughing, they touched your arm. 

If someone didn’t like you, they wouldn’t touch you. This is a huge sign to determine someone’s thoughts about you, and know if someone is thinking about you sexually. People don’t touch people they don’t like.

4. Their hands linger just a fraction too long
Do you feel this? When you hug goodbye, do you feel like their hands are all over you, or do they seem to linger just a fraction of a second longer than normal? Or when they touch your fingers to take your phone, is there a little more physical touch than necessary?

When someone is thinking about you sexually and desire you, they’d have a very hard time keeping their hands off you!

5. Eye contact
Eye contact is everything. Your eyes can tell someone countless things. If someone likes you sexually, you’ll see it in their eyes. They’ll hold eye contact longer than usual and give you flirty stares. They’ll make sure to check you out whenever possible.

6. They’re flirting with you
Okay, some people do flirt for fun, but even those people have an underlying attraction to you. People do not flirt with people they’re not sexually interested in. It’s that simple.

If they’re flirting with you, they’re trying to build sexual tension and chemistry. This is a great sign to know if someone is thinking of you sexually.

7. Eye f**king you
Okay, have you ever found someone staring at you intensely or dreamily when you’re not looking towards them? And do they suddenly turn their head away or avert their eyes when you catch them staring? Welcome to the lustful scenario of eye f**king.

They find you so sexually desirable they can’t think straight around you. And they can’t take their eyes off your body too!

8. They’re nervous around you
When someone likes you, of course, they’re going to be a little nervous around you. They don’t want to screw it up and ruin their chances with you. Plus, since they want you, they’re trying to calm themselves down and act as normal as possible.

9. Lip-licking
Who would have thought lip-licking would be a sign! Even though it’s a subtle act, lip licking is a huge sign they’re sexually attracted to you and desire you.

Both men and women will instinctually lick their lips when they see someone they like or are thinking about a sexual act. 

10. They try to prolong interactions
When you chat, even though it looks like it’s about to end, they talk more. They don’t want to let you go. It’s cute *but if you really need to go, it can be a little annoying*.

11. They suggest hanging out alone
Maybe you usually hang out in groups, but recently, they’ve asked to hang out alone with you. Well, this one isn’t rocket science when it comes to figuring out how to know if someone is thinking about you sexually.

If someone is thinking about you sexually, they want to hang out with you alone and create a connection, maybe even try to make a move. 

12. They care about their appearance
Before they met you, they weren’t into their appearance. But since you have started hanging out, they’re more fashion-forward. They want to look good for you and impress you.

Both women and men want to look their best in front of someone they like sexually. And in all probability, they’re doused in perfume too!

13. They’re all smiles around you
When you hang out, whether alone or with other people, they’re always smiling. Both men and women smile a lot when they’re around someone they’re interested in.

There are a couple of different smiles. You have the “boy/girl next door” smile and then you have the “I want to rip your clothes off” smile. Both are good.

14. They tell you
If someone tells you they can’t stop thinking about you or you’re always on their mind, it’s not because they think about you as a friend. It’s because they’re sexually attracted to you. They want a chance to make a move. 

15. There’s a lot of fidgeting
When you’re next to them, they play with their hair, a napkin, scratch their leg. There’s always some fidgeting going on. This isn’t because they’re bored if that’s what you’re thinking. Rather, it’s because they’re sexually attracted to you, and they’re nervous. 

16. Fixing themselves
Whether man or woman, they adjust themselves around you when they’re sexually aroused. If it’s a guy, he’ll try to sit up straight and puff his chest out, he’ll make his voice deeper and try to act more macho. If it’s a woman, she’ll fix her cleavage, play with her hair and speak softly while coming closer to the guy.

Since they’re sexually attracted to you, they’re nervous about what you think of them. Also, the guy could have a boner if there’s some touching going on. Sorry, just had to say it! 

17. Sexual tension
Sexual tension is something that most people can’t define with words, but they sure know it when they feel it.

If you can “cut the tension with a knife,” when you are around this person, then you know that there are sexual thoughts that are going in their mind – and yours. 

18. Body language
We’ve already discussed eye contact and touching, but you should watch their overall body language. Do they sit really close to you? Do they lean into you when you talk?

Notice how they position their body. Body language accounts for almost 90% of the meaning of a message, so you should study theirs carefully if you want to know what they are really thinking.

19. Your friends notice it
If you are around this person in a group of friends, everyone around you will notice.

From the way the two of your flirt to how you touch each other, it’s almost like you can’t not notice the sexual tension between the two of you. And people wouldn’t notice all of this if this person wasn’t thinking about you sexually.

20. Sexual or romantic jokes
Sometimes, people have a hard time coming right out and being direct with what they’re thinking. They are like this because they fear rejection. So instead, they beat around the busy and make jokes.

So, if the person is joking about dating you or that you are probably good in bed, then they are making their sexual intentions known to you in an indirect way.

21. Late-night texts or calls
If someone is laying in bed at night, it’s not unlikely that they have sex on their mind. So, if you happen to get a lot of texts or calls late at night from the person, it’s because they are thinking about you.

And by “thinking about you,” we mean “thinking about you sexually.” They probably wish you were laying right beside them in bed so they could have sex with you. [Read: Booty call or flirty hello? How to respond to late night texts]

22. They compliment you… a lot
Sure, people give compliments to others all the time. But there’s a difference between saying, “Hey, I really like your shoes” and “You look so hot in that shirt.”

So, if you find that this person usually compliments you with very subtle sexual undertones, then they are hoping you get the hint that they are thinking of you sexually.

23. Their voice changes
When we are romantically and sexually attracted to someone, our voice tends to change a little. We talk in a different pitch than we do to people we aren’t attracted to.

So, if you notice that the person’s speech pattern and the sound of their voice changes around you, then you have your answer. 

What to do if someone is thinking of you sexually

If you have now come to the conclusion that someone is thinking of you sexually, then now what should you do about it? Well, it depends on how you feel about it.

If you’re also sexually attracted to them, then you can flirt back and try to drop hints that you feel the same way. Or, you could always take the direct approach and tell them that you are interested in dating them or hooking up with them. It depends on how brave you are feeling. 

On the other hand, if you are not attracted to this person, then you might want to change your behavior. You want to let them know that you don’t feel the same way.

So, make sure the way you communicate with them gives them that message. Don’t be so engaging over text or in person. And hopefully, they’ll get the hint that you’re in their friend zone and nothing more!

Learning how to know if someone is thinking about you sexually is a little hard to decipher, but by using these signs, you’ll be able to put the pieces of the puzzle together and read their mind instantly!

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