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15 Things You Need To Know About Relationship To Avoid Heartbreak

You are here because you don’t want to make mistake that will lead to heartbreak in your new or next relationship right? I have 15 Things You Need To Know About Relationship To Avoid Heartbreak a well arranged facts you need to know about relationship and consider before going into relationship with that guy/girl you are madly in love with.

1. You have to share the same values to avoid heartbreak. If you have differing opinions on Cold play or you don’t share the same sleep number, you’ll probably be OK. But no long-term relationship can survive if you don’t agree on things like when to seriously start saving money to buy a home, when to turn off your cell phones and spend time with your families, and whether or not to have kids.

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2. Only you can decide what’s best for you and your relationship. Ask your friends and family for advice all you want — and listen to it! They know you and love you — but if your heart is telling you to do the opposite, listen to it and be careful else heartbreak will set in.

3. Show your partner you care about the things he/she cares about else heartbreak will set in. Here’s a great rule: if one of you cares about it, it isn’t stupid. (Even if it’s stupid.)

4. The couples who stay together forever work through the things that could break them up. No relationship is perfect or without the occasional blow-up, but the couples who stay together for decades and decades are the ones who take the rough times in stride and always prioritize their commitment to each other over fights and hard times.

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5. Sex matters. Sex is a physical way to show the person you love how much you care about them. It’s doesn’t have to be your number one priority all the time.

6. Sometimes when one person’s life changes so their values will also change. Moving to a new city for a job or school, losing a parent, or getting a huge promotion at work can change how a person approaches life.

If this happens and you find that your values no longer align, it’s fine to move on and find someone who is on the same page as you.

7. DON’T SNOOP. If you’re insecure, talk about it. Snooping always backfires. Always!

8. If you spend all your time looking for someone who’s exactly like the ex you’re still in love with, you’ll never find anyone. At best, you’ll get a crummy knockoff of your ex, rather than a unicorn you love for being the unicorn he is.

15 Things You Need To Know About Relationship To Avoid Heartbreak

9. Looks, height, job description, or income bracket won’t make someone love you more. If you refuse to date anyone who doesn’t meet a set of criteria, you might find yourself spending more time looking for someone who checks off boxes than someone who adores the hell out of you and makes you really freaking happy.

10. Your relationship doesn’t compare to anyone else’s. Your parents had an awful divorce? That doesn’t mean your relationship is doomed. That couple you know who seems ten times more perfect than you and your significant other? Either they’re psychopaths who suppress all their feelings in an effort to seem perfect or they fight when you’re not looking. Stop comparing!

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11. You can’t change another person. People change all the time of their own accord, but never go into a relationship planning to mold the other person to your liking. If someone does change for the sake of a relationship working, it has to come from him/her, not you.

12. If your relationship makes you feel bad way more than it makes you feel great, end it. Your relationship isn’t always going to be all smiles and cuddles, but if you realize you haven’t been having fun or feeling good about yourself the majority of the time, and it stems from your relationship, this isn’t the right relationship for you.

Read This How To End A Relationship In 8 Respectful Steps

13. No one can read your mind. If you want him to make you dinner on Valentine’s Day, you can’t say you “don’t care” about Valentine’s Day and then get upset when he doesn’t do anything for you on Valentine’s Day. If you need or want something from him, you have to tell him!

14. Communication is the key to solving problems and preventing fights. Use “I” statements. Don’t yell at each other. If you’re going to fight, make sure it’s productive and you solve the problem so you don’t have the same draining fight over and over again.

15. Your relationship is everything. When you look back at your life, you won’t wish you spent more time answering email or looking at Facebook. You’ll think about the person you loved and all the amazing things you did together.

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Written by Johnnywriter

Johnnywriter (a.k.a Johnny Speaks Relationships) the Founder and co-editor of Hisparadise. Relationship counselor and Life coach. His priority is helping people realize their self worth and have a happy relationship. Johnnywriter has covered topics related to depression, anxiety, stress, relationships and difficult family circumstances. With an understanding that there is never too much information and helpful research about relationship problems in all of its forms, He continues to look for new and creative ways to both start discussions & engage with others about these important topics.

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  1. So Johnny you got me waiting till now. Have been waiting for a new article today and though you took time but this is worth it. Thanks for the info. Maybe I should just engage you right away. Smiles

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