14 Signs He Does Not Love You Anymore 💔

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14 Signs He Doesn't Love You Anymore
14 Signs He Doesn't Love You Anymore

There are many signs to watch out for when a man doesn’t love a woman anymore and If his feelings have changed, your relationship has to change. These signs your boyfriend or husband doesn’t love you will show you what to do next.

Before you read through these signs he doesn’t love you, remember that there is no one right way to show love in a relationship. Some men show love easily and obviously, while others are more guarded and quiet. Some couples are expressive; others value distance, time, and space in their relationship.

If you feel emotional distance in your relationship, it may not be a sign he doesn’t love you. Your boyfriend or husband may simply be less in touch with his or your feelings and emotions, and thus less likely to connect with you on an emotional level. Emotional and/or physical distance in a relationship can be a red flag, or even a sign of fear of intimacy.

Giving unnecessary excuses just to avoid you

So normally, you guys loved being together at all times but nowadays, he gets irritated at your every breath, not to talk of hanging out together; girl, this is definitely a bad sign. Also, if it has come to your notice that somehow you cannot run into each other despite being in the same house, you should know that it isn’t a coincidence. He may just be giving you an indirect signal that he wants out.

Sometimes, in order to avoid going out with you, he might give unnecessary excuses or make something up which you obviously can see through in most cases. This is one of the more subtle signs he doesn’t love you anymore.

He become secretive

For instance; excusing himself to pick a call, not allowing you have access to his phone as usual, tilting his phone so that you won’t be able to see his messages when you sit beside him, going out without letting you know of his whereabouts and whenever you ask him about it, he “puts you in your place”.

A guy who loves you would tell you most things and would not want to hide anything from you but if that is not the case and he doesn’t love you anymore, he would feel like he has no duty or obligation to let you know and you have no right to question him.

To him, his feelings for you and the time you guys spent together are in the past now. This is definitely a bad sign and you should as well take it seriously.

Getting angry for no reason

Perhaps your man has always been a patient fellow, always easy going with people and even more with you but then, you suddenly notice that he has been getting angry and yelling at you for every little thing you do, and might sometimes, feign being angry so as to push you away.

His tolerance level drops by the minute and he is always doing things himself because according to him, you make him angry. He is likely trying to opt out of that relationship and he is giving you every reason to do the same.

Lack of communication

Wistful concerned African American couple in casual clothing sitting on bed at home after having quarrel

This supposed to have come first but here it is. This is arguably one of the most painful signs he doesn’t love you anymore. Communication is key in every relationship and whenever there is a lack of it or it isn’t effective, the relationship has a higher tendency of falling apart. Effective in the sense that he is not ignoring you but the interest to talk that he used to have just isn’t there anymore. Note that this includes both verbal and non-verbal communication.

When you notice this over a prolonged period of time, even after putting in efforts to fix it, then you should realize that it’s likely his feelings have changed.

He gives you little or no attention

Another one of the signs he doesn’t love you anymore is that he does not want to be involved in your life. Whenever you want to talk to him, he says he’s busy and when he does, he doesn’t even give you attention; he avoids your eyes, probably picks up his phone while you “rant and ramble”.

Perhaps he no longer asks you how your day went, how you feel, or even take you out on a date. He prioritizes little things over you and says no to any suggestion you make that might try to revive his feelings for you.

Another case is him being weirdly quiet when you know you did something that would have made him angry. This could be tricky though. He might be holding in his anger and waiting for the perfect time to explode or he might just be totally uninterested in whatever you do.

He keeps forgetting special events 

Special events such as your birthday, valentine’s day, anniversary and other special days are rarely forgotten by those that cherish you, not to talk of the person you are dating. Also, if on his birthday, he decides to spend it with his friends and does not give you any time throughout the day, this is a sure red flag.

He stops saying loving words

Side view unhappy sorrowful African American couple sitting on bed back to back after having argument

Although we cannot say all men do this because they might push for the fact that they believe in actions rather than words, quite a number of them do. Words of affirmation of love soften a partner’s heart, so people tend to use it a lot.

The absence of loving words such as “I love you”, and “I miss you” for a very long period of time, with no action to be meted out in its stead, is a big but sometimes subtle sign he doesn’t love you anymore.

He does not care about your feelings

Woman in Orange Shirt Lying on Black Sofa

Regardless of what a man is going through, he would still care about his lady’s feelings. He might not be as sweet and loving as usual, but he would still try to know what’s going on with you. He would comfort you and try to make you feel better.

So, here’s the sad twist: This is not the case for a man who is falling out of love with his lady. He might have little or no interest in whatever she’s feeling. Although he might be aware of what’s going through her mind, he pretends to be unaware – simply oblivious.

He is not proud of you in public

When your man does not want you to be seen with him in public, or doesn’t introduce you as his woman to his friends but just wants to keep it between you two in private, it could be a sign that he doesn’t love you enough and is trying to opt out of the relationship.

Whatever a man cherishes, he boasts about it. He should do the same for you. He should be able to stand with you – as your man – in public and introduce you as his woman whenever the need arises; and not you, hiding away like a side chick.

He blocks you out from contributing in decision making

Before now, anything that was agreed upon was a mutual decision. But recently, you often try to guess what’s going on in his mind. He does not tell you about any project, work or anything regarding him, he just wants to do it all by himself and for himself. Those feelings of togetherness and connection he once felt with you are all in the past now. This is definitely not a good sign.

His words are now rude

He starts to use harsh words on you without caring if he is hurting your feelings. He doesn’t filter his words, he just says them the way he wants and sometimes, he does this intentionally. Also he might reply to you in a sarcastic manner. For him, all he knows is that he wants to leave the relationship but might not know how to put it in words, so he just uses this impolite behavior to blurt out his feelings.

He start comparing you with other women

Man in Beige Coat Standing Near Woman in Black Coat

With any little flaw you make, he uses that as an opportunity to bring up other women, especially his ex. No man who loves his girlfriend or wife would compare them with any other; instead he would learn to accept her flaws, while helping to make her a better person.

He always disagree with you

When he starts picking on you at the slightest chance – for example, “you didn’t place the flower vase properly” – and then blows it out of proportion, you should know that something is definitely up. He might be going through a phase but when this becomes a predictable and consistent action, there goes up a red flag warning you that something is not right with his feelings for you.

He doesn’t apologize when he is wrong

Free stock photo of adult, affection, blended family

Even though he is aware of what he did wrong, he ignores it totally and does not apologize. While on the other hand, he wants you to apologize quickly and if you don’t, he might use that as a reason to break off the relationship.

BONUS: He asks for a break

Each person needs his\her own space from time to time to think and reflect, or just “me time” and this helps a lot in many relationships. However, when either side starts to crave their alone time more than usual, then something is wrong and needs to be addressed.

If your man starts behaving this way, it is either he is stressed or carrying a burden that is obviously too heavy for him to bear alone. And for the unpalatable part, he probably wants to opt out of the relationship asap.

CONCLUSION

It is important to remember that signs like these can be caused by many different factors in a relationship. However, what is certain is that they are definitely important signs that shouldn’t be overlooked.

Remember, effective communication is the key to any long lasting relationship and the lack of this would bring about a lot of misunderstandings, unnecessary excuses and secret keeping.

When your man starts getting angry for no reason or grabs every opportunity he gets to disagree with you, forgets special occasions, stops saying sweet words but uses harsh and rude languages, offends you and does not bother to apologize, blocks you out from making or contributing in decision making, hides you away in public and starts comparing you with other women and ultimately asks for a break; this is not a coincidence! I repeat, this is not a coincidence.

You should be able to check if it is just a phase or he really has fallen out of love with you – whether it’s a passing moment or the beginning of the end of the relationship. It’s your call to make.

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Johnnywriter (a.k.a Johnny Speaks Relationships) the Founder and co-editor of Hisparadise. Relationship counselor and Life coach. His priority is helping people realize their self worth and have a happy relationship. Johnnywriter has covered topics related to depression, anxiety, stress, relationships and difficult family circumstances. With an understanding that there is never too much information and helpful research about relationship problems in all of its forms, He continues to look for new and creative ways to both start discussions & engage with others about these important topics.

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